SEXUALITY

The normal changes that happen to everyone as they grow up can be exciting and confusing.   It may seem like you wake up one morning and everything about you is different or strange.   Your friends are probably feeling the same way, but that doesn’t always make it easier.

 

Many of the changes you are experiencing are sexual.   Your body is developing into an adult, and your feelings can be very strong.   Having good information and understanding these changes can make them seem less confusing.   The more you know about and like yourself, the more likely it is that you will make decisions that are right for you, especially the decisions that involve dating, relationships, and sexuality.

 

There are lots of messages around about love and sex.   Friends, parents, church, television, and magazines may have different ideas about being in love or being sexually active.   It is important that you get the facts and sort though your feelings.   You are the one who must make choices and live with the consequences, whether they be good or bad.

 

You should not be embarrassed or feel pressured into doing anything that you think is “too soon,” or “too fast,”  or “just plain wrong.”  There are many ways of showing someone you care about them or that you “fit in” without making yourself uncomfortable.

 

Talk with your parents or other adults whom you trust and respect.   Check with your school counselor for courses that cover growth and development or family living.   Many churches, synagogues, and other youth groups/organizations offer information and support to young people.

 

If you need to talk to someone confidentially or get more information, call:

 

 

 

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